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The date…1971 you walk into a room of people dressed in tight mini skirts and polyester leisure suits. The gold chains around the neck while showing off their hairy chests, point out how cool they really are. If they are lucky, they will end the evening “swapping” and going home with another persons spouse… Is this you? Chances are, this is the image that most of us, along with the general public, have imbedded in our minds about what swingers are like.

Welcome to 2003! Who are today’s Swingers? Would you believe that Vice Presidents of major corporations, Politicians, Teachers and even Clergy are sharing their most intimate relationships? People that may have just met on the Internet or in person, thanks to thousands of swing clubs, private house parties and personal magazine ads, many are taking the average friendship and going the next step. Some are even meeting at the work place or college dorms. The big difference now is that it is no longer a lifestyle set aside for dark hidden bars in the tucked away shadows of the inner cities. Lost with this are the Gold chains, Miniskirts and Polyester leisure suits. Amen!

Through our 10 years of observing and/or counseling over 5000 couples within the alternative lifestyles…we have noticed the following:

- Most are middle to upper income

- Most have college educations

- Most have chosen this lifestyle to enhance (Not substitute) their primary relationship.

- Most have very stable and secure primary relationships and would not consider cheating on their significant other…or have the need.

- Almost all are very considerate of others wishes and needs and know what “no thank you” means

- Almost all take major precautions to prevent sexually transmitted diseases.

- We find that a major percentage (better than 80%) are NON-smokers.

- Swingers tend to take care of their bodies more than non-swingers, but than again…this lifestyle is like dating.

- Surprisingly enough over 90% of all women are bi-sexual or bi-curious where only about 40% of the men are orally bi in any given group situation. (About 10% in a non group environment…one on one)

- We find the average age to be 34-40 contrast with the 70’s, the average age was more like 45-50.

It is very important when swinging to follow certain rules of etiquette. This will allow for both you and the other participants to have a more enjoyable safer experience.

If you are new to the particular swing club or party that you will be attending, it is always a good idea to speak with the host/manager prior to the event and find out exactly what rules they have for their events. If is important that if you choose to attend the event that you follow all of its rules. If you are not comfortable with the rules of the swing event, find another swing event to attend instead.

When invited to a swing party it is considered polite to always RSVP, whether you choose to attend or not. Remember that RSVPing does not mean saying yes to an invitation, it just means replying by stating your intentions. When accepting an invitation it is always a good idea to ask the host(ess) if there is anything that they would like you to bring.

Make sure that before leaving for a swing event that you are well groomed. Shower, shave if necessary, brush your teeth, use deodorant, trim your nails if you like to stimulate your sex partners digitally, etc. There is no bigger turn off than poor hygiene. Also, pack your own bag of toiletries, towels, and safer sex supplies. It is unhygienic to share towels with strangers and it is always good to know that you have your favorite lube or condoms on hand.

If you are attending a couples swing event it is important to arrive with your partner. It is inappropriate to arrive separately. You should not attend a couples only event if you are single, and it is never considered ok to hire an escort to attend a couples only swing event with you. Furthermore, you and your partner need to decide whether you want to always participate together or if it is ok to have social time alone at a swing event. If the decision the two of you come to is that you will only have sex play together it is important that you do not then abandon your partner you socialize at the event on your own. If a swing event is providing a group sex room it may be inappropriate to enter the room without your partner. If you are unsure about this, speak to the host.

It is usually considered rude to enter a private or group sex room to just stare and objectify the participants. It is also inappropriate to have an argument with your partner at an swing event, especially in a room where others are having sex. If you and your partner enter into a disagreement, the best thing is to leave the event until you can resolve the conflict in private.

It is considered inappropriate at most swing events to come high or stoned. It is also considered poor etiquette to become intoxicated at a swing party. Not only is this inappropriate for the other guests, but you may find yourself doing things that you don’t really want to. If you are drunk you may not remember what you did the previous evening. Being stoned or intoxicated can ruin an otherwise healthy enjoyable event.

You should never do something with which you are uncomfortable. It is always important to say yes only when you mean yes and to clearly say no when you mean no. Appropriate swing etiquette when turning down a sexual proposition is to simply say, “No, thank you.” Do not give an explanation because it is unnecessary and often leads to more hurt than just a simple refusal. If you proposition someone and they say no, never pressure or coerce the person and do not ask for an explanation. The rule at all swing events is that consent is of the utmost importance and that all participants be willing participants. If someone pressures you after you say no you should immediately report this to the host/manager. If you pressure or coerce someone, you will probably be reported to the host/manager.

If you are placing a swing ad it is considered courteous to respond to all replies within two weeks. Even if you are choosing to not further the interaction it is appropriate to make that clear and not just ignore the responses in which you are not interested.

Most important of all, have a good time! This is a great time to try new sexual activities, explore your wildest fantasies in a respectful manner, and push the limits of your sexuality and lifestyle.

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A Briton who set up a swingers club in rural Thailand faces jail for promoting sex tourism.
Anthony Craig is under investigation for charging guests ?100 a night for sex with unlimited partners, including girls aged 18 to 25 and transsexual ‘ladyboys’.
The 57-year-old says on his website that all his sex workers are anxious to meet foreigners and ’sh*g like rabbits’.
Guests are picked up discreetly from Udon Thani airport and taken to Resort Caroline in the remote Nong Saeng district, five miles from the nearest village.
Mr Craig, who with Thai wife Lampan, 31, is on ?4,600 bail, says in his promotional literature: ‘I have helped village girls find fun and rich western boyfriends and husbands.
‘My hedonistic business is aimed at soft-play couples and shy single men. It started off as a nudist resort and my guests sort of changed things. My ethos is live and let live.’
The former builder, from Aylesbury, Buckinghamshire, adds that he only allows people over 18 to take part in the orgies and he never joins in.
‘I make more friends than enemies but my enemies are the unseen bigots that condemn my way of life because of their myopic outlook,’ he says.
About 6,000 swingers, mainly from Britain, are thought to have visited the resort since it opened four years ago. Its gatehouse is manned by Mr Craig’s Thai mother-in-law.
Police chief Teerasak Krinponsa said: ‘These swingers and this resort are giving Thailand a bad name.’

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Swinging is a safe, international, middle class and increasingly popular leisure choice for married and
courting couples. Yet contrary to its obligations under the European Convention on Human Rights, the
United Kingdom effectively criminalizes swingers in contrast to the high degree of tolerance it rightly extends
to gay men for precisely the same activities.
This provides the justification used by unethical elements in the press to harass swingers even in their own
homes. The British government promotes bigotry against swingers by funding an NGO that campaigns
against swingers by pretending contrary to the scientific evidence that their lifestyle is detrimental to any
couple’s relationship.
The British government should recognise its responsibilities under the European Convention on Human
Rights to respect the sexuality of swingers and stop discriminating against them. It should cease to fund
the NGO that campaigns against swingers and investigate whether it has breached its charitable status;
and should legalise swingers’ activities and lightly regulate their dedicated premises through Acts of Parliament.

Media sexual stereotyping of the nursing profession is a well-recognized phenomenon; however the sexual stereotyping of the image of the nurse by the sex/pornography industry is a much less publicized or discussed phenomenon within the nursing profession. This paper aims to examine the presentation of the sexual stereotyping of nurses by newspapers and the sex/pornography industry. Both national and local newspapers in the UK frequently use derrogatory terminology to depict the sexual stereotyping of nurses. Images and sexual stereotyping of nursing by the sex industry is also noted. The media was found to emphasize both positive and negative nursing stereotypes and in comparison with other occupations and professions sexual stereotyping was prevalent. The utilization of nursing imagery is also significantly visible across a wide range of pornographic and sex industry material.

Those intimately involved call it “the lifestyle.” Swinging or swapping spouses for sex. It’s something that’s gone on here for years, isn’t widely publicized, and may not be legal, but its popularity and locations are spreading.

Prostitution is illegal in Clark County, but you can pay for the opportunity to have sex with others in your own neighborhood. Patrons hope what happens at a swingers club stays there, but neighbors of one such place want to get the word and the people out.

Nestled at the edge of Sunrise Mountain, the holiest of places for one of the valley’s biggest religions, the Mormon Temple is where marriages take place and lives as a couple begin. But just 500 yards up the road, as the sun sets, a much different lifestyle takes shape.

The Glitter Nights Swingers Party takes place in Sunrise Manor, a 22,000-square-foot mansion in a purely residential neighborhood, operating as a business.

There’s a lounge, dance floor and DJ, and of course a bar. We proceeded on a tour with our hostess, Susie, after meeting her partner Daniel.

“The swing room’s in here with a massage table. The swing has a remote if you wanna lower it and raise the chair, it can do that for you if you wanna get a little kinky and crazy,” explained Susie.

Glitter nights is in County Commissioner Rory Reid’s district. “I just think it’s outrageous this is in a residential neighborhood,” says Reid. This is an apparent adult use in a residential neighborhood, and I don’t think anybody, no matter how, umm, progressive they may be, would condone that use in a neighborhood.”

It’s not just in this neighborhood. At the Lights of Vegas estate on the other side of town, near Cheyenne and Jones, it’s $60 per couple at the door. Their website lists a host of events, including a mother’s day brunch. At the house, there’s hot food, cold drinks and group sex.

There are at least eight of these places around the valley, and many, including the well-known Red Rooster, operate in residential neighborhoods. But while the newer clubs are easy to find on the web, they’ve essentially operated under the radar, until now.

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